Men may decide to spend time with a female companion for reasons beyond the obvious.
A man may still be married to his wife mainly for the children’s sake. Or he may be looking for support after a failed serious relationship. There are unlimited possibilities.
No matter your reasons for wanting to date a female companion, you have to know some basic female companion etiquette, especially if you’re a first-timer.
1. Make a good first impression.
These days, hiring a female companion couldn’t be easier. Online is probably where your first contact will likely occur, and depending on your approach, you may or may not get a reply from the female companion provider.
To boost your chances of getting a date, write in a friendly and decent way, describing everything you plan to do with the female companion. This is a perfect time to put your man pants on. Say something about yourself, indicate the time frame that you would like to spend with with her, and ask her politely if she has an opening.
Quit the “I’m paying for this so I can do everything I want” attitude because it will never get you a date – a quality one, at least. Remember, there are many interested men out there, so you still have to compete a little.
2. Never ask personal questions.
You don’t date a female companion hoping she can be your girlfriend or a future life partner. Don’t ask any personal questions or she might just walk out on you (with her fee, of course). This is really not the kind of date you’ll want to take personally.
3. Let her ask questions and answer them too.
For first-timers, this easily looks like a double standard. Don’t worry, she just needs to protect herself – standard operating procedure. She’ll probably ask for female companion references, but as a newbie, she’ll probably want to hear about your family, your work or business, etc. The questions may keep coming until she’s sure you’re no serial killer. Is that such a bad thing? Mighty not!
At the end of the day, remember that dating a female companion is comparable to hiring any professional, such as a lawyer or a plumber. Whatever the service is, you’re likely to get a better outcome if you treat them with respect. Treating a female companion nice can make her treat you as a valued client, and perhaps you can even form a friendship. She’ll be glad to see you again in the same manner that professionals usually like to see good customers come around.